The Family International
Template:Short description Template:For Template:Distinguish Template:Lead too short Template:Use mdy dates Template:Infobox Christian denomination The Family International (TFI) is an American religious cult founded in 1968 by David Brandt Berg.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> The group has gone under a number of different names since its inception, including Teens for Christ, The Children of God (COG), The Family of Love, or simply The Family.
A British court case found the group was an authoritarian cult which engaged in the systematic physical and sexual abuse of children,<ref name="Brocklehurst-Hell-2018"/> resulting in lasting trauma among survivors.<ref name=BURGARINO>Template:Cite news</ref> The group has also been accused of targeting vulnerable people.<ref name="Gardner-cbc-2016">Template:Cite news</ref>
Overview
[edit]According to the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation, "at its height" the Family movement had "tens of thousands of members, including River and Joaquin Phoenix, Rose McGowan, and Jeremy Spencer".<ref name="Gardner-cbc-2016"/> TFI initially spread a message of salvation, apocalypticism, spiritual "revolution and happiness", and distrust of the outside world, which the members called The System. Like some other fundamentalist groups, it "foretold the coming of a dictator called the anti-Christ, the rise of a brutal One World Government, and its eventual overthrow by Jesus Christ, in the Second Coming".<ref name="Niebuhr-1993"/>
In 1976,<ref name="davidberg.org">Template:Cite web</ref> it began a method of evangelism called Flirty Fishing that used sex to "show God's love and mercy" and win converts, resulting in controversy.<ref>Template:Cite news</ref> TFI's founder and prophetic leader, David Berg—who adopted the name "Moses David" while in Laurentide, Canada,<ref>Template:Cite book</ref> and was also referred to "Father David" by members<ref name="Niebuhr-1993"/>—gave himself the titles of "King", "The Last Endtime Prophet", "Moses", and "David".
Berg communicated with his followers via "Mo Letters"—letters of instruction and counsel on myriad spiritual and practical subjects—until his death in late 1994.<ref name=moletters>Template:Cite web</ref> After his death, his widow Karen Zerby became the leader of TFI, taking the titles of "Queen" and "Prophetess". Zerby married Steve Kelly (also known as Peter Amsterdam), an assistant of Berg's whom Berg had handpicked as her "consort". Kelly took the title of "King Peter" and became the face of TFI, speaking in public more often than either Berg or Zerby. There have been multiple allegations of child sexual abuse made by past members.<ref name="suicide">Template:Cite news</ref><ref name="brazilian">Template:Cite news</ref>
Berg preached a combination of traditional Christian evangelism, with elements popular with the counterculture of the 1960s. There was much "end-of-the-world imagery" found in the Book of Revelation of the New Testament, preaching of impending doom for America and the ineffectiveness of established churches. Berg "urged a return to the early Christian community described in the Bible's Book of Acts, in which believers lived together and shared all,"<ref name="Niebuhr-1993"/> resembling the communal living of late 1960s hippies.
History
[edit]The Children of God (1968–1977)
[edit]The founder of the movement, David Brandt Berg (1919–1994), was a former Christian and Missionary Alliance pastor.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> Berg started in 1968 as an evangelical preacher with a following of "born-again hippies" who gathered at a coffeehouse in Huntington Beach, in Orange County, California. In 1969, after having a revelation "that California would be hit by a major earthquake", he left Huntington Beach and "took his followers on the road".<ref name="Niebuhr-1993"/>
They would proselytize in the streets and distribute pamphlets. Leaders within The Children of God (COG) were referred to as The Chain. Members of COG founded communes, first called colonies (now referred to as homes), in various cities.
Berg communicated with his followers by writing letters. He published nearly 3,000 letters over a period of 24 years, referred to as the Mo Letters.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> In a letter written in January 1972, Berg stated that he was God's prophet for the contemporary world, attempting to further solidify his spiritual authority within the group. Berg's letters also contained public acknowledgement of his own failings and weaknesses,<ref>Template:Cite book</ref>Template:Verify source for example, he issued a Mo Letter entitled "My confession -- I was an alcoholic!" (ML #1406 Summer 1982) relating his depression after some of his closest supporters quit in 1978.<ref name="Chancellor-2000-11"/>
In 1972, a Mo Letter reportedly entitled "Flee as a Bird to Your Mountain" was interpreted by some members, including Ruth Gordon, author of Children of Darkness about the cult, as a warning to leave America. "God was going to destroy the U.S. ... and we had to get out." This, along with the pressure members felt that parents were trying to "rescue" children who had joined CoG, encouraged members to "[migrate] abroad—first to Europe, eventually to Latin America and East Asia".<ref name="Niebuhr-1993"/>
By 1972, COG stated it had 130 communities around the world,<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> and by the mid-1970s, it had "colonies" in an estimated 70 countries.<ref name="Niebuhr-1993"/> BBC reported 10,000 full-time COG members in the 1970s.<ref name="Brocklehurst-Hell-2018"/>
In 1976,<ref name="davidberg.org" /> Berg had introduced a new proselytizing method called Flirty Fishing (or FFing), which encouraged female members to "show God's love" through sexual relationships with potential converts. Flirty Fishing was practiced by members of Berg's inner circle starting in 1973, and was introduced to the general membership in 1976.<ref name=Origins />
The Family of Love (1978–1981)
[edit]The Children of God was abolished in February 1978, and Berg renamed his group "The Family of Love"<ref name="Niebuhr-1993"/> In what Berg called the "Re-organization Nationalization Revolution" (or RNR).<ref name="Chancellor-2000-10">Template:Cite book</ref> Berg reorganized the movement, dismissing "more than 300 leading members after hearing unspecified 'reports of serious misconduct and abuse of their positions."<ref name="Niebuhr-1993"/> Reportedly involved were The Chain's abuse of authority, and disagreements within it about the continued use of Flirty Fishing. The group was also accused of sexually abusing and raping minors within the organization, with considerable evidence to support this claim. One eighth of the total membership left the movement. Those who remained became part of a reorganized movement called the Family of Love, and later, The Family. The majority of the group's beliefs remained the same.<ref name=Origins>Template:Cite web</ref>
The Family of Love era was characterized by international expansion.
After 1978 Flirty Fishing "increased drastically"<ref name="Chancellor-2000-11">Template:Cite book</ref> and became common practice within the group. A Mo Letter from 1980 (ML #999 May 1980) for example was headlined "The Devil Hates Sex! --- But God Loves It!".<ref name="Chancellor-2000-17">Template:Cite book</ref> In some areas flirty fishers used escort agencies to meet potential converts. According to TFI "over 100,000 received God's gift of salvation through Jesus, and some chose to live the life of a disciple and missionary" as a result of Flirty Fishing.<ref name=Origins /> Researcher Bill Bainbridge obtained data from TFI suggesting that, from 1974 until 1987, members had sexual contact with 223,989 people while practicing Flirty Fishing.<ref>Template:Cite book</ref>
The Family (1982–1994)
[edit]According to the Family's official history, the group had "far fewer common standards of conduct" during The Family of Love stage than it had previously. In the late 1980s the group "tightened its standards" "to ensure that all member communities provide a very wholesome environment for all, particularly the children", and changed its name to "The Family".<ref name="Niebuhr-1993"/> In March 1989, TF issued a statement that, in "early 1985", an urgent memorandum had been sent to all members "reminding them that any such activities [adult–child sexual contact] are Template:Em within our group" (emphasis in original), and such activities were grounds for immediate excommunication from the group.<ref name="Child Abuse?!">Template:Cite web</ref> In January 2005, Claire Borowik, a spokesperson for TFI, stated:
Due to the fact that our current zero-tolerance policy regarding sexual interaction between adults and underage minors was not in our literature published before 1986, we came to the realization that during a transitional stage of our movement, from 1978 until 1986, there were cases when some minors were subject to sexually inappropriate advances ... This was corrected officially in 1986, when any contact between an adult and minor (any person under 21 years of age) was declared an excommunicable offense.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref>
After a 1993 expose in the Los Angeles Times,<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> the group broke "years of virtual silence" and began "inviting reporters and religious scholars" to visit its commune in La Habra, California, where at least a Washington Post journalist (Gustav Niebuhr) found its members to be "a clean-cut bunch, friendly and courteous". At that time The Family claimed to have "about 9,000 members worldwide, with about 750 scattered across the United States".<ref name="Niebuhr-1993">Template:Cite news</ref> The group emphasized its mainstream Christian opposition to abortion, homosexuality, drugs and drunkenness and its respect for Rev. Billy Graham.<ref name="Niebuhr-1993"/>
The Family (1995–2003)
[edit]After Berg's death in October 1994, Karen Zerby (known in the group as Mama Maria, Queen Maria, Maria David, or Maria Fontaine) assumed leadership of the group.
In February 1995, the group introduced the Love Charter,<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> which defined the rights and responsibilities of Charter Members and Homes. The Charter also included the Fundamental Family Rules, a summary of rules and guidelines from past TF publications which were still in effect.
In the 1994–95 British court case, the Rt. Hon. Lord Justice Alan Ward ruled that the group, including some of its top leaders, had in the past engaged in abusive sexual practices involving minors and had also used severe corporal punishment and sequestration of minors.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> He found that by 1995 TF had abandoned these practices and concluded that they were a safe environment for children. Nevertheless, he did require that the group cease all corporal punishment of children in the United Kingdom and denounce any of Berg's writings that were "responsible for children in TF having been subjected to sexually inappropriate behaviour".<ref>Template:Cite web</ref>
The Family International (2004–present)
[edit]The Love Charter is The Family's set governing document that entails each member's rights, responsibilities and requirements, while the Missionary Member Statutes and Fellow Member Statutes were written for the governance of TFI's Missionary member and Fellow Member circles, respectively. FD Homes were reviewed every six months against a published set of criteria. The Love Charter increased the number of single family homes as well as homes that relied on jobs such as self-employment.<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref>
Recent teachings
[edit]TFI's recent teachings are based on beliefs which they term the "new [spiritual] weapons". TFI members believe that they are soldiers in the spiritual war of good versus evil for the souls and hearts of men.
Spirit Helpers
[edit]"Spirit Helpers" include angels, other religious and mythical figures, and departed humans, including celebrities; for example the goddess Aphrodite, the Snowman, Merlin, the Sphinx, Elvis,<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> Marilyn Monroe, Audrey Hepburn,<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> Richard Nixon, and Winston Churchill.
The Keys of the Kingdom
[edit]TFI believes that the Biblical passage "I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatsoever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatsoever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven" (Matthew 16:19), refers to an increasing amount of spiritual authority that was given to Peter and the early disciples. According to TFI beliefs, this passage refers to keys that were hidden and unused in the centuries that followed, but were again revealed through Karen Zerby as more power to pray and obtain miracles. TFI members call on the various Keys of the Kingdom for extra effect during prayer. The Keys, like most TFI beliefs, were published in magazines that looked like comic-books in order to make them teachable to children.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref>
Loving Jesus
[edit]"Loving Jesus" is a term TFI members use to describe their intimate, sexual relationship with Jesus. TFI describes its "Loving Jesus" teaching as a radical form of bridal theology.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> They believe the church of followers is Christ's bride, called to love and serve him with wifely fervor; however, this bridal theology is taken further, encouraging members to imagine Jesus is joining them during sexual intercourse and masturbation. Male members are cautioned to visualize themselves as women, in order to avoid a homosexual relationship with Jesus. Many TFI publications, and spirit messages claimed to be from Jesus himself, elaborate this intimate, sexual relation they believe Jesus desires and needs. TFI imagines itself as his special "bride" in graphic poetry, guided visualizations, artwork,<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> and songs.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> Some TFI literature is not brought into conservative countries for fear it may be classified at customs as pornography.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> The literature outlining this view of Jesus and his desire for a sexual relationship with believers was edited for younger teens,<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> then further edited for children.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref>
Criticism
[edit]The Family has been found liable in a British court, and also criticized by the press and the anti-cult movement. Ex-members have accused the Family's leadership of following "a policy of lying to outsiders", being "steeped in a history of sexual deviance" and even meddling "in Third World politics". The Family replies that it is a victim of "persecution".<ref name="Niebuhr-1993"/>
Allegations of abuse and mistreatment have been publicly expressed by some of those who have left the group; examples include sisters Celeste Jones, Kristina Jones, and Juliana Buhring and Daniella Mestyanek Young, who both wrote books<ref name="nwms">Template:Cite book</ref> on their lives in TFI.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref>
In 1971, an organization called FREECOG was founded by concerned parents and others, including deprogrammer Ted Patrick to free members of the COG from their involvement in the group.
At least one individual growing up in the family (Verity Carter) during the Children of God era described being sexually abused "from the age of four by members of the... cult, including her own father". She blames the philosophy of David Berg, who told members that "God was love and love was sex", so that sex should not be limited by age or relationship. Carter also complains of being "repeatedly beaten and whipped for the smallest of transgressions", being denied "music or television or culture", or other "contact with the outside world", so that she had "no idea how the world worked" other than how to manipulate the "systemites" (outsiders), like social workers.<ref name="Brocklehurst-Hell-2018">Template:Cite news</ref>
Author Don Lattin interviewed numerous members of the Family for his book Jesus Freaks. In a review of his book, Paul Burgarino describes Berg as "drawing from the remnants of hippie life—people with nothing to lose, nowhere to go, and no Christian background" to alert them to deviations in Berg's preaching.<ref name=BURGARINO/> One ex–Children of God member, Jerry Golland, describes himself at the time of joining the group as penniless and so depressed that the Children of God scraped him "off the street".<ref name="Gardner-cbc-2016"/> Members would "learn to spot, you know... a vulnerable person. We called them sheep", Golland told the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation.<ref name="Gardner-cbc-2016"/>
Pressure to raise money could also be intense. Ex-member Golland says that members who were good at raising money and distributing the pamphlets were called "Shiners". Those with poor sales were called "Shamers". "If you missed your quota you could not come home for dinner", he said.<ref name="Gardner-cbc-2016"/>
Media produced by the group
[edit]The Family International produced multiple pop songs along with music videos.<ref name="g613">Template:Cite web</ref> One notable song released in 1985 was Cathy Don't Go, about a woman who goes to the supermarket where customers have barcodes on their hands and foreheads, and who almost gets implanted with a 666 microchip.<ref name="s271">Template:Cite web</ref><ref name="t706">Template:Cite web</ref> The cult also created children's shows, with an example being Life With Grandpa, which had characters based on Berg and his family, and featured sexual content alongside Christianity-related life lessons.<ref name="i700">Template:Cite web</ref>
Notable members (past and present)
[edit]Joined in adulthood
[edit]- Jeremy Spencer, blues slide guitarist and a founding member of Fleetwood Mac, which he left in 1971 when he joined TFI.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref>
Raised in the COG and later left
[edit]- Christopher Owens: musician, of US indie band Girls, was brought up in TFI by his parents.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref><ref>Template:Cite web</ref>
- Rose McGowan: film actress, described her TFI childhood in interviews with Howard Stern,<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> People magazine,<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> and later in her book Brave.
- River Phoenix, Joaquin Phoenix, Rain Phoenix, Liberty Phoenix, and Summer Phoenix, actors, were members of the group from 1972 to 1978. River Phoenix, who died of a drug overdose in 1993, told Details magazine in November 1991 that "they're ruining people's lives."<ref>Template:Cite journal</ref>
- Susan Justice: American pop rock singer-songwriter and guitarist, known best for her debut self-recorded album, The Subway Recordings.
- Tina Dupuy: American journalist and syndicated columnist.
- Ricky Rodriguez: subject of the suppressed manual advocating adult-child sexual contact, committed a murder-suicide in 2005, killing one of the women who raised and allegedly sexually abused him, then himself.<ref name="suicide"/>
- Davida Kelley: eldest daughter of Sara Kelley, who was David Berg's nanny and raised Davida and Ricky Rodriguez in a highly abusive environment. Davida has been outspoken about the group's abuse in public media such as Larry King Live and accused Berg of sexually abusing her as a child in a June 2005 Rolling Stone article.<ref>Template:Cite magazine</ref>
- Juliana Buhring: first woman to bicycle around the world<ref>Template:Cite newsTemplate:Cbignore</ref> and co-author of Not Without My Sister along with Celeste and Kristina Jones.
- Lauren Hough: author of Leaving Isn't the Hardest Thing,<ref>Template:Cite news</ref> brought up in TFI.
- Flor Edwards, author,<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> who was raised inside the group before her parents moved out.
- Dawn Watson: victim of sexual abuse while living in a TFI community.<ref name="brazilian"/>
- Taylor Stevens: author,<ref>Template:Cite web</ref> raised in the group from age 12 until she left in her 20's with her two children.
- Bexy Cameron: British child member who left aged 15 and later wrote a book about her experiences.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref>
- Faith Jones: a lawyer, was raised in the group in Macau before leaving. She wrote about her life in the book Sex Cult Nun.<ref>Template:Cite book</ref>
Autobiographical accounts
[edit]- Davis, Deborah (Linda Berg) (1984). THE CHILDREN OF GOD: The Inside Story. Zondervan Books, Grand Rapids, Michigan. Template:ISBN. Expose by the founder's eldest daughter who left the cult.
- Template:Cite book Expose by a senior member who left after 20+ years.
- Template:Cite book Young was born and raised in The Children of God cult. She's the eldest daughter of a second generation cult member who was 14 when she was impregnated by an older cult member.
- Template:Cite book Hough was born and raised in the Children of God. Her 2021 essay collection is a New York Times Bestseller.
Media featuring the group
[edit]- The Jesus Trip (1971): a documentary by Denis Tuohy that has interviews with Children of God members.
- Children of God (1994): a 63-minute Channel 4 documentary by John Smithson; detailing the Padilla family and the abuse of their three underage daughters and the death of another.
- Children of God: Lost and Found: a 75-minute documentary by Noah Thomson, featured at the 2007 Slamdance Film Festival.<ref>Template:IMDb title</ref>
- Cult Killer: The Rick Rodriguez Story: a 53-minute UK documentary with a transcript.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref>
- In the first episode of Louis Theroux's Weird Weekends, "Born Again Christians", Louis visits a Texas TFI family.
- The Parcast Podcast Cults: Episodes 11 and 12.<ref>Template:Cite web</ref>
- Citizen Rose: A five part documentary series shown on the E! Channel. The first episode premiered on January 30, 2018. The series follows actress Rose McGowan who was born into the cult.
- The Last Podcast on the Left did a four part series on the cult: Episodes 248-251<ref>Template:Cite web</ref>
- Dan Cummins' podcast Timesuck covered the cult in episode 104, "The Children of God Sex Cult".
- AJJ released a song entitled "Children of God" on their 2014 album Christmas Island.
- A&E's Cults and Extreme Belief, episode 3 (2018) is about the Children of God.<ref name="AECEB">Template:Cite web</ref>
See also
[edit]- Comet Kohoutek was viewed by David Berg as a prophetic sign of imminent disaster.
- Jim Palosaari was part of the Jesus People Army, left it before the group joined the Children of God, and tried to convince Linda Meissner not to join it.
- Love bombing describes a manipulative style of recruitment.
- Panton Hill, Victoria is the location of one of the communes, where a large government raid occurred and many children were removed by social services.
References
[edit]Further reading
[edit]Academic
[edit]- Chancellor, James (2000). Life in The Family: An Oral History of the Children of God. University of Syracuse Press, Syracuse, NY.
- Bainbridge, William Sims (2002). The Endtime Family: Children of God. State University of New York Press. Template:ISBN.
- Bainbridge, William Sims (1996). The Sociology of Religious Movements. Routledge. Template:ISBN.
- Barker, Eileen. (1989). New Religious Movements, A Practical Introduction. Her Majesty's Stationery Office. Template:ISBN.
- Barker, Eileen. (2021). "Children of God/The Family International Armageddon" Template:Webarchive. In James Crossley and Alastair Lockhart (eds.) Critical Dictionary of Apocalyptic and Millenarian Movements.
- Barrett, DV (1996). Sects, Cults and Alternative Religions. Blandford A. Cassell. Template:ISBN.
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- Lewis, James R, and Melton, J. Gordon (eds). (1994). Sex, Slander, and Salvation: Investigating The Family/Children of God. Center for Academic Press, Stanford, CA.
- Lynch, Dalva, and Paul Carden (1990). "Inside the 'Heavenly Elite': The Children of God Today." Template:Webarchive. Christian Research Journal, pp 16.
- McFarland, Robert (1994). "The Children of God." The Journal of Psychohistory 4(21).
- Melton, J. Gordon (2004). The Children of God, "The Family" (Studies in Contemporary Religion vol. 7). Signature Books. Template:ISBN.
- Melton, J. Gordon (2004). The Family International Britannica Article Template:Webarchive
- Melton, J. Gordon and Robert L. Moore (1982). The Cult Experience: Responding to the New Religious Pluralism. The Pilgrim Press, New York, USA.
- Palmer, Susan J. (1994). "Heaven's Children: The Children of God's Second Generation" in Sex, Slander, and Salvation, op. cit.
- Palmer, Susan J., and Charlotte Hardman eds. (1999). Children in New Religions (3rd ed.). Rutgers University Press. Template:ISBN.
- Shepherd, Gary, and Lawrence Lilliston (1994). "Field Observations of Young People's Experience and Role in The Family" in Sex, Slander, and Salvation, op. cit.
- Shepherd, Gary, and Shepherd, Gordon (August 2005). "Accommodation and Reformation in The Family/Children of God" Template:Webarchive, Nova Religio (Journal of the University of California)
- Shepherd, Gary and Shepherd, Gordon (Spring 2000)."The Moral Career of a New Religious Movement" The Oakland Journal.
- Wilson, Bryan and Jamie Cresswell, eds. (1999). New Religious Movements: Challenge and Response. Routledge, London, UK.
- Wright, Stuart (1987). Leaving Cults: The Dynamics of Defection. Society for the Scientific Study of Religion. Washington, D.C., USA. Template:ISBN (Contains interviews with ex-members of three groups, among others the Children of God)
- Van Zandt, David (1991). Living in the Children of God. Princeton University Press, Princeton, New Jersey.
- Young, Shawn David, Hippies, Jesus Freaks, and Music (Ann Arbor: Xanedu/Copley Original Works, 2005). Template:ISBN.
Journalistic and popular
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- Jones, Faith (2021). Sex Cult Nun. HarperCollins. Template:ISBN.
- Lattin, Don. Jesus Freaks: A True Story of Murder and Madness on the Evangelical Edge. HarperOne. Template:ISBN.
- Mahoney, Mary (2020). Abnormal Normal: My Life in the Children of God. Template:ISBN.
- McManus, Una (1980). Not for a Million Dollars. Impact Books. Template:ISBN.
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- Rivenburg, Roy (March 21, 1993). "A True Conversion?" Los Angeles Times.
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- Williams, Miriam (1999). Heaven's Harlots: My Fifteen Years as a Sacred Prostitute in the Children of God Cult. Quill. Template:ISBN.