Editing Wedding ring (section)

==Cultural practices==

===Wedding ceremony customs===
[[Image:Placing a wedding ring.jpg|thumb|left|A groom placing a wedding ring on the finger of his bride during a wedding ceremony]]

In several traditions, the [[best man]] or [[maid of honor]] has the duty of keeping track of a couple's wedding rings and to produce them at the symbolic moment of the giving and receiving of the rings during the traditional marriage ceremony. In more elaborate weddings, a [[ring bearer]] (who is often part of the family of the bride or groom) may assist in the ceremonial parading of the rings into the ceremony, sometimes on a special cushion.

In [[Western Christianity]], engagement rings are exchanged during the betrothal rite, while wedding rings are given during the celebration of holy matrimony itself.<ref name="Ac2011">{{cite web |title=Rites Relating to Marriage: A Statement and Resources from The International Anglican Liturgical Consultation |url=https://www.anglicancommunion.org/media/42273/ialc_rites_relating_to_marriage_acc-15.pdf |publisher=The International Anglican Liturgical Consultation |access-date=19 September 2021 |language=English |date=2011 |pages=4, 14–15 |archive-date=20 September 2021 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20210920194542/https://www.anglicancommunion.org/media/42273/ialc_rites_relating_to_marriage_acc-15.pdf |url-status=live }}</ref> Among [[Eastern Orthodox]], [[Eastern Lutheran]] and [[Eastern Catholic]] Christians, the exchange of rings is not technically part of the wedding service, but rather are exchanged at the betrothal. It is always a two-ring set given to her by the priest or by the best man.<ref name="Britannica" /> Unlike most other Orthodox Churches, the Eastern Orthodox Christian [[Church of Greece]] has recently stopped performing betrothal blessings separately, and now a betrothal ceremony is the initial part of the wedding service. In Greece, the ceremony of betrothal may be performed immediately before the wedding (or "crowning" as it is more properly called), and the actual symbolic act of marriage is not the exchange of rings, but the crowning.

Historically, the wedding ring was connected to the exchange of valuables at the moment of the wedding rather than a symbol of eternal love and devotion, a sign of "earnest money". According to the 1549 edition of the [[Book of Common Prayer (1549)|Book of Common Prayer]]: after the words "with this ring I thee wed" follow the words "This gold and silver I give thee", at which point the groom was supposed to hand a leather purse filled with gold and silver coins to the bride.<ref name=KunzRing>{{cite book | last = Kunz | first = George Frederick | author-link = George Frederick Kunz | title = Rings for the Finger | publisher = J.B. Lippincott Co. | year = 1917 | url = http://www.farlang.com/gemstones/kunz-rings/page_289 | access-date = 8 July 2007 | archive-date = 10 September 2014 | archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20140910195935/http://www.farlang.com/gemstones/kunz-rings/page_289 | url-status = live }}</ref> It is a relic of the times when marriage was a contract between families, not individual lovers. Both families were then eager to ensure the economic safety of the young couple. Sometimes it went as far as being a conditional exchange as this old (and today outdated) German formula shows: "I give you this ring as a sign of the marriage which has been promised between us, provided your father gives with you a marriage portion of 1000 ''[[Reichsthaler]]s''" (approximately {{cvt|20|kg}} of silver).<ref name = KunzRing/>

===Post-wedding customs===
[[Image:Diamond, 14kG, wed eng anv RING.JPG|thumb|A [[gold]] banded [[Engagement ring|engagement-wedding-anniversary ring]] combination welded together]]
[[Image:Wedding ring Louvre AC924.jpg|thumb|Byzantine wedding ring, depicting Christ uniting the bride and groom, 7th century, [[niello]]ed gold ([[Musée du Louvre]])]]

After marriage, the wedding ring is worn on the hand on which it had been placed during the ceremony. By wearing rings on their fourth fingers, married spouses symbolically declare their life-long love for and fidelity to each other. This symbol has public utility and is presently expected as a matter of [[tradition]] and [[etiquette]], so much so that its absence is often interpreted as meaning that the person is single. Many spouses wear their wedding rings day and night. It is not uncommon for some spouses, especially those who have occupations that make the wearing of rings dangerous, such as actors, police and electrical workers, to not wear the ring at all, or to wear it on a [[chain]] around their neck. Since the 19th century in the West, some have considered it unlucky to remove a wedding ring once it has been placed on the finger in church.<ref name="Monger2004">{{cite book|last=Monger|first=George|title=Marriage Customs of the World: From Henna to Honeymoons|year=2004|publisher=ABC-CLIO|language=en|isbn=9781576079874|page=[https://archive.org/details/marriagecustomso0000mong/page/235 235]|url-access=registration|url=https://archive.org/details/marriagecustomso0000mong/page/235}}</ref>

Some cultures exchange additional rings. In some parts of [[India]], [[Hindu]] women may wear a [[toe ring]] or ''bichiya'' instead of a finger ring, but the ''bichiya'' is increasingly worn in addition to a finger ring. In eastern India, primarily in [[West Bengal]], women wear an iron [[bangle]], which may be gold- or silver-plated, called a ''loha''. In [[Romania]], spouses celebrate their silver [[wedding anniversary]], i.e. twenty-fifth anniversary, by exchanging silver rings, which are worn on the fourth finger of the left hand along with their original, and usually gold, wedding rings.<ref>{{cite web | first =Sheri | last =Stritof | title =History of Wedding Anniversary Gift Lists | work =About.com: People & Relationships – Marriage | publisher =About.com | url =http://marriage.about.com/od/anniversariescelebrations/a/annivhistory.htm | access-date =17 September 2013 | archive-date =20 October 2013 | archive-url =https://web.archive.org/web/20131020060107/http://marriage.about.com/od/anniversariescelebrations/a/annivhistory.htm | url-status =live }}</ref>

===Wedding ceremonies that use rings===
====Christian====
*[[Anglican]] ([[Book of Common Prayer]]): "With this ring I thee wed, with my body I thee worship, and with all my worldly goods I thee endow: in the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Ghost. Amen."<ref>The Form of Solemnization of Matrimony, Book of Common Prayer, 1662.</ref>
*[[Eastern Orthodoxy]]: In the [[Marriage in the Eastern Orthodox Church|Eastern Orthodox Service of Betrothal]], the priest makes the [[Sign of the Cross]] with rings over the bride's head while declaring three times "The servant of God (Groom) is betrothed to the handmaid of God (Bride), in the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the [[Holy Spirit in Christianity|Holy Spirit]]. Amen". Next, it is declared three times again over the bride's head with the names reversed, after which the rings are exchanged three times, either by the priest or [[best man]]. The [[priest]] asks God "to bless this putting on of rings with a heavenly blessing and that an Angel of the Lord will go before these Your servants, all the days of their life."<ref>{{cite web | publisher=Greek Orthodox Archdiocese of Australia |title=The Sacrament of Marriage According to the Rites of The Greek Orthodox Church | url= http://www.greekorthodox.org.au/general/resources/servicebooklets/wedding | access-date=11 March 2013 | archive-url= https://web.archive.org/web/20130419152607/http://www.greekorthodox.org.au/general/resources/servicebooklets/wedding | archive-date= 19 April 2013}}</ref> In the [[Eastern Orthodox Church]], wedding rings are traditionally worn on the right hand.
*[[Lutheran]]: "I give you this ring as a sign of my love and faithfulness."<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.iplc.org/docs/marriage/LBW%20Marriage%20Service.pdf|title=Marriage|year=2014|work=[[Lutheran Book of Worship]]|publisher=[[Augsburg Fortress]]|language=en|access-date=9 July 2018|archive-date=1 November 2019|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20191101104420/http://www.iplc.org/docs/marriage/LBW%20Marriage%20Service.pdf|url-status=live}}</ref>
*[[Roman Catholic Church]]: "[Name], receive this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit."<ref>{{cite web | url=https://thecatholicspirit.com/faith/focus-on-faith/faith-fundamentals/wedding-rings-and-marriage/ | title=Wedding rings and marriage | date=11 January 2022 }}</ref> Because the equality of the spouses is emphasized in the Roman Catholic [[Sacrament of Marriage]], generally the bride and groom each give to the other a wedding ring and recite the above formula in turn.

=====Mixed usage and non-use in other Christian Churches=====
While most Christian Churches (such as the Catholic, Lutheran, and Anglican) have the exchange of rings within their wedding liturgies, some Christian denominations eschew the use of wedding rings.

The wearing of [[plain dress]] has historically been practiced by many [[Methodist Church]]es, in keeping with the teaching of [[John Wesley]], who stated that people should not be "adorned with gold, or pearls, or costly apparel" (this clause is contained in The General Rules of the Methodist Church).<ref name="Bunch1997">{{cite book|last=Bunch|first=Taylor G.|title=Exodus and Advent Movements in Type and Antitype|year=1997|publisher=TEACH Services, Inc.|isbn=9781572581210|page=77}}</ref><ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.umc.org/what-we-believe/the-general-rules-of-the-methodist-church|title=The General Rules of the Methodist Church|publisher=[[The United Methodist Church]]|language=en|access-date=9 July 2018|archive-date=8 July 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180708114111/http://www.umc.org/what-we-believe/the-general-rules-of-the-methodist-church|url-status=live}}</ref> The first Methodist liturgical text, ''[[The Sunday Service of the Methodists]]'', omitted the ring ceremony.<ref>{{cite book|title=Religion in Life|year=1948|publisher=Abingdon Press|language=en|page=519}}</ref> As such, members of some Methodist Churches, such as the [[Allegheny Wesleyan Methodist Connection]] and [[Bible Methodist Connection of Churches]], do not wear wedding rings.<ref name="AWMC">{{cite book|title=Discipline of the Allegheny Wesleyan Methodist Connection|publisher=[[Allegheny Wesleyan Methodist Connection]]|language=en|chapter=I. The Church|page=31}}</ref><ref>{{cite web |url= http://www.biblemethodist.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/2014-Bible-Methodist-Discipline.pdf |title= Discipline of the Bible Methodist Connection of Churches |year= 2014 |pages= 33–34 |language= en |access-date= 19 June 2017 |archive-date= 2 August 2017 |archive-url= https://web.archive.org/web/20170802000411/http://www.biblemethodist.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/2014-Bible-Methodist-Discipline.pdf |url-status= live }}</ref> However, other Methodist Churches contain the exchange of wedding rings within their services for Holy Matrimony. In the wedding liturgy for the [[Free Methodist Church]], for example, the groom and bride say the following when exchanging rings: "This ring I give you in token and pledge of our constant faith and steadfast love".<ref>{{cite web|url=http://fmcusa.org/wp-content/blogs.dir/45/files/2011/07/FMC_Book-of-Discipline.pdf|title=2007 Book of Discipline|year=2007|publisher=[[Free Methodist Church]]|page=226|language=en|access-date=9 July 2018|archive-date=2 April 2016|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20160402055742/http://fmcusa.org/wp-content/blogs.dir/45/files/2011/07/FMC_Book-of-Discipline.pdf|url-status=live}}</ref> "A Service of Christian Marriage, Rite I" contained in [[The United Methodist Book of Worship (1992)|The United Methodist Book of Worship]] states that the exchange of rings is optional but when it is done, they are [[Blessing#Christianity|blessed]] and pronounced as "the outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual grace, signifying to us the union between Jesus Christ and His Church".<ref name="UMC1992"/> Following this, the bride and groom state the following as they exchange rings: "[Name], I give you this ring as a sign of my vow, and with all that I am, and all that I have, I honor you; in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit."<ref name="UMC1992">{{cite web|url=https://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/a-service-of-christian-marriage-i|title=A Service of Christian Marriage I|year=1992|publisher=[[The United Methodist Church]]|language=en|access-date=9 July 2018|archive-date=28 March 2017|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20170328195557/https://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/a-service-of-christian-marriage-i|url-status=live}}</ref>

Some conservative [[Mennonite]] groups do not wear jewelry, including wedding rings, as part of their practice of [[plain dress]].<ref name="Wenger2000">{{cite book|last=Wenger|first=John C.|title=Glimpses of Mennonite History|date=3 October 2000|publisher=Wipf & Stock Publishers|language=en|isbn=9781579104658|page=113}}</ref> The [[Amish]] do not wear wedding rings but the men are clean shaven before marriage and grow a full beard after marriage.

Among [[Quaker Christian]]s, especially [[Conservative Friends]] and [[Central Yearly Meeting of Friends|Holiness Friends]], the wedding ring is traditionally not worn as a part of their [[testimony of simplicity]].<ref>{{cite web|url=https://scholarworks.gvsu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1000&context=rel_books|title=Seventh-day Quaker: A Spiritual Memoir|last=Ranger|first=Kim L.|year=2016|publisher=[[Grand Valley State University]]|language=en|access-date=9 July 2018|archive-date=22 January 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180122105346/https://scholarworks.gvsu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1000&context=rel_books|url-status=live}}</ref> Among Quaker groups that do wear wedding rings, the following wording is used by the bride and groom as they are exchanged: "With this ring, I thee wed."<ref name="Cartier2014">{{cite book|last=Cartier|first=Marie|title=Baby, You are My Religion: Women, Gay Bars, and Theology Before Stonewall|date=11 September 2014|publisher=Routledge|language=en|isbn=9781317544715|page=158}}</ref> The [[Friends General Conference]], for example, teaches that "Although wedding rings are not necessary in a Quaker wedding, the couple may exchange them if they wish. This is often done after they speak their vows."<ref>{{cite web|url=https://www.fgcquaker.org/system/files/cloud_attachments/MMM%20Marriage%20Guidelines%202014.pdf|title=Faith and Practice of Northern Yearly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends Chapter on Marriage Approved, May 2008 and Guidelines for Marriage Under the Care of Madison Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends|year=2014|publisher=[[Friends General Conference]]|page=16|language=en|access-date=9 July 2018|archive-date=21 October 2016|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20161021131028/https://www.fgcquaker.org/system/files/cloud_attachments/MMM%20Marriage%20Guidelines%202014.pdf|url-status=live}}</ref>

Traditionally, adherents of the [[Seventh-day Adventist Church]] do not wear wedding rings.<ref name="SDA1967">{{cite book |title=Review and Herald: Official Organ of the Seventh-Day Adventist Church |date=1967 |publisher=[[Seventh-day Adventist Church]] |page=14 |language=en |quote=In the United States, Seventh-day Adventist ministers do not baptize a person wearing a wedding ring, nor do they officiate at a wedding in which the ring ceremony is part of the service.}}</ref> The usage of wedding rings among Seventh-day Adventists, however, has increased.<ref name="Spectrum1969">{{cite book |title=Spectrum: Journal of the Association of Adventist Forums |date=1969 |publisher=The Association |page=47 |language=en |quote=In 1918, Stemple White quoted John Wesley and the 1855 Methodist Discipline in an apparent protest against increasing acceptance of the wedding ring in Adventist circles.}}</ref>

====Jewish====
*[[Judaism]]: "You are consecrated to me with this ring according to the law of Moses and Israel." In [[Orthodox Judaism]], only the groom declares this in [[Hebrew]]; but in [[Reform Judaism]], both the bride and groom declare it.<ref name=Blane>{{cite web |last1= Blane |first1= Steven |title= Jewish Wedding |url= http://www.jewishweddingtraditions.org/ |website= JewishWeddingTraditions.org |access-date= 3 December 2014 |archive-date= 7 December 2014 |archive-url= https://web.archive.org/web/20141207160609/http://www.jewishweddingtraditions.org/ |url-status= live }}</ref> Many Orthodox Jewish men do not wear wedding rings.{{Citation needed|reason=Previous source was a manosphere blog...|date=September 2023}}