Editing Joseph Conrad (section)

====Romance and marriage====
In 1888 during a stop-over on [[Mauritius]], in the [[Indian Ocean]], Conrad developed a couple of romantic interests.  One of these would be described in his 1910 story "A Smile of Fortune", which contains autobiographical elements (e.g., one of the characters is the same Chief Mate Burns who appears in ''[[The Shadow Line (novel)|The Shadow Line]]''). The narrator, a young captain, flirts ambiguously and surreptitiously with Alice Jacobus, daughter of a local merchant living in a house surrounded by a magnificent rose garden. Research has confirmed that in Port Louis at the time there was a 17-year-old Alice Shaw, whose father, a shipping agent, owned the only rose garden in town.{{sfnp|Najder|2007|pp=126–27}}

More is known about Conrad's other, more open flirtation. An old friend, Captain Gabriel Renouf of the French merchant marine, introduced him to the family of his brother-in-law. Renouf's eldest sister was the wife of Louis Edward Schmidt, a senior official in the colony; with them lived two other sisters and two brothers. Though the island had been taken over in 1810 by Britain, many of the inhabitants were descendants of the original French colonists, and Conrad's excellent French and perfect manners opened all local salons to him. He became a frequent guest at the Schmidts', where he often met the Misses Renouf. A couple of days before leaving Port Louis, Conrad asked one of the Renouf brothers for the hand of his 26-year-old sister Eugenie. She was already, however, engaged to marry her pharmacist cousin. After the rebuff, Conrad did not pay a farewell visit but sent a polite letter to Gabriel Renouf, saying he would never return to Mauritius and adding that on the day of the wedding his thoughts would be with them.

[[File:Westbere House Geograph-2802100-by-N-Chadwick.jpg|thumb|upright=1.3|Westbere House, in [[Canterbury]], Kent, was once owned by Conrad. It is [[Listed building#England and Wales|listed Grade II]] on the [[National Heritage List for England]].<ref>{{cite news |title=Westbere House |url=https://historicengland.org.uk/images-books/photos/item/IOE01/12349/12 |access-date=24 June 2023 |agency=Historic England |archive-date=24 June 2023 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230624100939/https://historicengland.org.uk/images-books/photos/item/IOE01/12349/12 |url-status=live }}</ref>]]
On 24 March 1896 Conrad married an Englishwoman, Jessie George.{{sfnp|Najder|1969|p=174}} The couple had two sons, Borys and John. The elder, Borys, proved a disappointment in scholarship and integrity.{{sfnp|Najder|2007|pp=427, 454, 545–46, ''et passim''}} Jessie was an unsophisticated, working-class girl, sixteen years younger than Conrad.{{sfnp|Najder|2007|pp=218–19}} To his friends, she was an inexplicable choice of wife, and the subject of some rather disparaging and unkind remarks.{{sfnp|Najder|2007|pp=222–24, 292}} (See Lady Ottoline Morrell's opinion of Jessie in [[#Impressions|Impressions]].) However, according to other biographers such as [[Frederick R. Karl|Frederick Karl]], Jessie provided what Conrad needed, namely a "straightforward, devoted, quite competent" companion.{{sfnp|Karl|1979|p=341}} Similarly, Jones remarks that, despite whatever difficulties the marriage endured, "there can be no doubt that the relationship sustained Conrad's career as a writer", which might have been much less successful without her.<ref>{{Cite book|last=Jones|first=S.|title= Conrad and Women|year=1999|publisher=Clarendon Press|location=Oxford|page=36}}</ref>

When in 1923 Jessie Conrad published ''A Handbook of Cookery for a Small House'', it came with a preface from Joseph Conrad praising "the conscientious preparation of the simple food of everyday life, not the... concoction of idle feasts and rare dishes."<ref>{{Cite web |url=https://www.gutenberg.org/files/67482/67482-h/67482-h.htm |title=A Handbook of Cookery for a Small House, by Jessie Conrad—A Project Gutenberg eBook |access-date=30 October 2024 |archive-date=4 December 2024 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20241204034735/https://www.gutenberg.org/files/67482/67482-h/67482-h.htm |url-status=live }}</ref>

The couple rented a long series of successive homes, mostly in the English countryside. Conrad, who suffered frequent depressions, made great efforts to change his mood; the most important step was to move into another house. His frequent changes of home were usually signs of a search for psychological regeneration.{{sfnp|Najder|2007|p=419}} Between 1910 and 1919 Conrad's home was Capel House in [[Orlestone]], Kent, which was rented to him by Lord and Lady Oliver. It was here that he wrote ''[[The Rescue (Conrad novel)|The Rescue]]'', ''[[Victory (novel)|Victory]]'', and ''[[The Arrow of Gold]]''.<ref>{{NHLE|num=1184965|desc=Capel House, Orlestone, Kent|grade=II|last=|access-date=21 November 2023}}</ref>

Except for several vacations in France and Italy, a 1914 vacation in his native Poland, and a 1923 visit to the United States, Conrad lived the rest of his life in England.