Editing Polyamory (section)

=== Trust, honesty, dignity, and respect ===
Polyamory has been defined as loving more than one person at once, with respect, trust, and honesty for all partners involved.<ref name="polyoz_values">From PolyOz glossary: "Not in the [linguistic roots of the term] but very important is the commitment to honesty with all partners, and openly negotiated ground rules." [http://polyoz.scm-rpg.com.au/postnuke2/index.php?module=ContentExpress&func=display&ceid=8&meid=-1 Scm-rpg.com] {{webarchive |url=https://web.archive.org/web/20090227071434/http://polyoz.scm-rpg.com.au/postnuke2/index.php?module=ContentExpress&func=display&ceid=8&meid=-1 |date=February 27, 2009 }}</ref><ref name="s.org">From [https://archive.today/20120909091614/http://www.sexuality.org/book/ sexuality.org]: "Two of the cultural cornerstones of the polyamory community are honesty and communication: it's expected that you and your existing long-term partner(s) will have talked over what you're comfortable with and what you aren't comfortable with, and that nobody is going around behind anyone else's back."</ref><ref name="mcchal">{{cite journal |last1=McCullough |first1=Derek |last2=Hall |first2=David S. |date=February 27, 2003 |title=Polyamory – What it is and what it isn't |url=http://www.ejhs.org/volume6/polyamory.htm |journal=[[Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality]] |volume=6 |access-date=December 23, 2020 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20201210093927/http://www.ejhs.org/volume6/polyamory.htm |archive-date=December 10, 2020 }}</ref> Ideally, a partner's partners are accepted as part of that person's life rather than merely tolerated, and usually a relationship that requires deception or a "don't-ask-don't-tell" policy is seen as a less than ideal model.
''[[Out (magazine)|Out]]'' additionally described polyamory as "not a sexuality" but as actually "having multiple intimate relationships".<ref>{{cite web |url=https://www.out.com/music/2020/12/03/yungblud-opens-about-sexuality-talks-male-hookups |title=YungBlud Opens Up About Sexuality, Talks Male Hookups |last=Street |first=Mikelle |date=December 3, 2020 |website=[[Out (magazine)|Out]] |access-date=December 14, 2020 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20201203154115/https://www.out.com/music/2020/12/03/yungblud-opens-about-sexuality-talks-male-hookups |archive-date=December 3, 2020 |url-status=live}}</ref>