Editing Hannah Arendt (section)

== Relationships ==
{{see also|#Correspondence}}
[[File:Arendt and McCarthy (cropped).jpg|thumb|upright=0.8|Arendt with [[Mary McCarthy (author)|Mary McCarthy]]|alt=Portrait of Hannah Arendt with Mary McCarthy]]

In addition to her affair with Heidegger, and her two marriages, Arendt had close friendships. Since her death, her correspondence with many of them has been published, revealing much information about her thinking. To her friends she was both loyal and generous, dedicating several of her works to them.{{sfn|Young-Bruehl|2004|p=xl}} {{lang|de|Freundschaft}} (friendship) she described as being one of "{{lang|de|tätigen Modi des Lebendigseins}}" (the active modes of being alive),{{sfn|Berkowitz|Storey|2017|p=107}} and, to her, friendship was central both to her life and to the concept of politics.{{sfn|Young-Bruehl|2004|p=xl}}{{sfn|Nixon|2015|p=viii}} Hans Jonas described her as having a "genius for friendship", and, in her own words, "{{lang|de|der Eros der Freundschaft}}" (love of friendship).{{sfn|Young-Bruehl|2004|p=xl}}{{sfn|Weyembergh|1999|p=94}}

Her philosophy-based friendships were male and European, while her later American friendships were more diverse, literary, and political. Although she became an American citizen in 1950, her cultural roots remained European, and her language remained her German "{{lang|de|Muttersprache}}" (mother tongue).{{sfn|Arendt|Gaus|2011a}} She surrounded herself with German-speaking ''émigrés'', sometimes referred to as "The Tribe". To her, {{lang|de|wirkliche Menschen}} (real people) were "pariahs", not in the sense of outcasts, but in the sense of outsiders, unassimilated, with the virtue of "social nonconformism ... the ''sine qua non'' of intellectual achievement", a sentiment she shared with Jaspers.{{sfn|Young-Bruehl|2004|pp=xli–xliv}}

Arendt always had a {{lang|de|beste Freundin}} (best friend [female]). In her teens she had formed a lifelong relationship with her {{lang|de|Jugendfreundin}}, Anne Mendelssohn Weil ("Ännchen"). After she emigrated to America, Hilde Fränkel, Paul Tillich's secretary and mistress, filled that role until the latter died in 1950. After the war, Arendt was able to return to Germany and renew her relationship with Weil, who made several visits to New York, especially after Blücher's death in 1970. Their last meeting was in [[Tegna, Switzerland]] in 1975, shortly before Arendt's death.{{sfn|Ludz|2008b}} With Fränkel's death, Mary McCarthy became Arendt's closest friend and confidante.{{sfn|Young-Bruehl|2004|p=29}}{{sfn|Jones|2013}}{{sfn|Weigel|2013}}