Editing Abigail Adams (section)

==Marriage and children (1759–1783)==
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Abigail Smith first met John Adams when she was 15 years old in 1759. Meanwhile, John accompanied his friend Richard Cranch to the Smith household. Cranch was engaged to Abigail's older sister, Mary Smith, and they would be the parents of federal judge [[William Cranch]]. Adams reported finding the Smith sisters neither "fond, nor frank, nor candid."{{sfn|McCullough|2001|pp=51–52}}

Although Abigail's father approved of the match, her mother was appalled that her daughter would marry a [[country lawyer]] whose manner still reeked of the farm. Eventually, she gave in, and the couple married on October 25, 1764, in the Smiths' home in Weymouth. William Smith, Abigail's father, presided over the marriage.<ref>{{cite web|url=https://www.nps.gov/adam/abigailbio.htm|title=Abigail Adams Biography – Adams National Historical Park|website=www.nps.gov|publisher=U.S. National Park Service|access-date=November 16, 2016}}</ref> After the reception, the couple mounted a single horse and rode off to their new home, the [[saltbox house]] and farm John had inherited from his father in [[Braintree, Massachusetts]]<ref name=":0" /> (a location that is now part of [[Quincy, Massachusetts|Quincy]]). The couple welcomed their first child nine months into their marriage.<ref name=":0" />

In 12 years, Abigail Adams gave birth to six children:
* [[Abigail Adams Smith|Abigail]] ("Nabby"; 1765–1813)
* [[John Quincy Adams|John Quincy]] (1767–1848)
* Susanna (nicknamed "Suky")<ref>{{cite book|last=Gilles|first=Edith Belle|author-link=Edith B. Gelles|title=Abigail Adams: A Writing in Life|publisher=[[Routledge]]|year=2002|isbn=978-0-415-93945-4| page=[https://archive.org/details/abigailadams00edit/page/ xv]|url=https://archive.org/details/abigailadams00edit/page/}}</ref> (1768–1770)
* [[Charles Adams (1770–1800)|Charles]] (1770–1800)
* [[Thomas Boylston Adams (1772–1832)|Thomas]] (1772–1832)
* Elizabeth (stillborn in 1777)<ref>{{cite journal|author=G. J. Barker-Benfield|title=Stillbirth and Sensibility The Case of Abigail and John Adams|journal=Early American Studies|year=2012|volume=10 |issue =1|pages= 2–29|doi=10.1353/eam.2012.0003|jstor=23546680|s2cid=145021243}}</ref>

Her childrearing style included relentless and continual reminders of what the children owed to virtue and the Adams tradition.<ref name="America p. 24">[[Garry Wills]], ''Henry Adams and the Making of America'', 2005; p. 24; Wills cites the criticisms of Paul Nagel "and others"</ref> Adams was responsible for family and farm when her husband was on his long trips. "Alas!", she wrote in December 1773, "How many snow banks divide thee and me." Abigail and John's marriage is well documented through their correspondence and other writings.<ref>{{cite web |last1=Adams |first1=John |last2=Adams |first2=Abigail |title=Adams Family Papers |url=https://www.masshist.org/digitaladams/archive/letter/ |website=Massachusetts Historical Society |access-date=14 September 2023}}</ref> Letters exchanged throughout John's political obligations indicate his trust in Abigail's knowledge was sincere. Like her husband, Abigail often quoted literature in her letters. Historian [[David McCullough]] claims that she did so "more readily" than her husband. Their correspondence illuminated their mutual emotional and intellectual respect. John often excused himself to Abigail for his "vanity",{{sfn|McCullough|2001|p=272}} exposing his need for her approval.

John Adams moved the family to Boston in April 1768, renting a clapboard house on Brattle Street that was known locally as the "White House". He and Abigail and the children lived there for a year, then moved to Cold Lane; still later, they moved again to a larger house in Brattle Square in the center of the city.<ref>Ferling, John (1992). John Adams: A Life. University of Tennessee Press. {{ISBN|0-87049-730-8}}. [ebook] ch. 3</ref>

John's growing law practice required changes for the family. In 1771, he moved Abigail and the children back to Braintree, but he kept his office in [[Boston]], hoping the time away from his family would allow him to focus on his work. Nevertheless, after some time in the capital, he became disenchanted with the rural and "vulgar" Braintree as a home for his family, and thus, in August 1772, Adams moved his family back to Boston. He purchased a large brick house on Queen Street, not far from his office.<ref>Ferling, John (1992). John Adams: A Life. University of Tennessee Press. {{ISBN|0-87049-730-8}}. [ebook] ch. 4</ref> In 1774, Abigail and John returned the family to the farm due to the increasingly unstable situation in Boston, and Braintree remained their permanent Massachusetts home.<ref>{{cite web|url=https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/amex/adams/peopleevents/p_callender.html|title=American Experience – John & Abigail Adams – Timeline – PBS|work=pbs.org|access-date=September 7, 2015}}</ref>

Abigail also took responsibility for the family's financial matters, including investments. Her investments made through her uncle [[Cotton Tufts]] in debt instruments issued to finance the Revolutionary War were rewarded after [[Alexander Hamilton]]'s [[First Report on the Public Credit]] endorsed full federal payment at face value to holders of government securities.<ref name="Saxton">{{cite journal|last1=Saxton|first1=Martha|title=Abigail Adams, Capitalist|journal=Women's Review of Books|date=November 1, 2010|url=https://www.wcwonline.org/WRB-Issues/abigail-adams-capitalist|access-date=October 27, 2017|archive-date=July 1, 2019|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20190701170228/https://www.wcwonline.org/WRB-Issues/abigail-adams-capitalist|url-status=dead}}</ref> One recent researcher even credits Abigail's financial acumen with providing for the Adams family's wealth through the end of John's lifetime.<ref name="Saxton"/>