Editing Philip Larkin (section)

==Life==
===Early life and education===
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Philip Larkin was born on 9 August 1922 at 2 Poultney Road, [[Radford, Coventry]],<ref>{{cite web |url=http://orlando.cambridge.org/public/svPeople?person_id=larkph |title=Philip Larkin © Orlando Project |publisher=Orlando.cambridge.org |date=2 December 1985 |access-date=17 April 2016 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20160513034249/http://orlando.cambridge.org/public/svPeople?person_id=larkph |archive-date=13 May 2016 |url-status=live }}</ref>  the only son and younger child of Sydney Larkin (1884–1948) and his wife Eva Emily (1886–1977), daughter of [[HM Customs and Excise|first-class excise officer]] William James Day. Sydney Larkin's family originated in [[Kent]], but had lived since at least the eighteenth century at [[Lichfield]], [[Staffordshire]], where they worked first as tailors, then also as [[Coach (carriage)|coach-builders]] and shoe-makers. The Day family were from [[Epping, Essex]], but moved to [[Leigh, Lancashire]] in 1914 where William Day took a post administering pensions and other dependent allowances.<ref>Philip Larkin: A Writer's Life, Andrew Motion, Faber and Faber, 2018, pp. 1-2</ref>

Larkin's family lived in the district of [[Radford, Coventry]], until Larkin was five years old,<ref>Motion 1993, pp. 8,10.</ref> before moving to a large three-storey middle-class house complete with servants' quarters near [[Coventry railway station]] and [[King Henry VIII School, Coventry|King Henry VIII School]], in Manor Road. Having survived the bombings of the [[Second World War]], their former house in Manor Road was demolished in the 1960s to make way for a road modernisation programme,<ref>Motion 1993, p. 10.</ref> the construction of an inner ring road. His sister Catherine, known as Kitty, was 10 years older than he was.<ref name="PL Society">{{cite web
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His father, a [[self-made man]] who had risen to be Coventry City Treasurer,<ref name="PL Society"/> was a singular individual, 'nihilistically disillusioned in middle age',<ref>Larkin, letter to Monica Jones, 7 August 1953, ''Letters to Monica'', p. 106.</ref> who combined a love of literature with an enthusiasm for [[Nazism]], and had attended two [[Nuremberg rallies]] during the mid-1930s.<ref>Bradford 2005, p. 25.</ref> He introduced his son to the works of [[Ezra Pound]], [[T. S. Eliot]], [[James Joyce]] and above all [[D. H. Lawrence]].<ref>Bradford 2005, p. 26.</ref> His mother was a nervous and passive woman, "a kind of defective mechanism...Her ideal is 'to collapse' and to be taken care of",<ref>Larkin to Monica Jones, 8 April 1955, ''Letters to Monica'', p. 148.</ref> dominated by her husband.<ref>Motion 1993, p. 11.</ref>

[[File:Spinny -Poultney Road -Coventry 28y08.jpg|right|thumb|Larkin's parents' former [[Radford, Coventry|Radford]] council house overlooking a small spinney, once their garden (photo&nbsp;2008)|alt=Larkin's parents' former [[Radford, Coventry|Radford]] council house overlooks a small spinney, once their garden. The spinney is on the corner of two roads. It is a lawn, maintained by the Coventry City Council groundsmen, with some mature trees and bushes around the perimeter as seen in 2008]]
Larkin's early childhood was in some respects unusual: he was educated at home until the age of eight by his mother and sister, neither friends nor relatives ever visited the family home, and he developed a stammer.<ref>Bradford 2005, pp. 28, 31.</ref> When he joined Coventry's King Henry VIII Junior School he fitted in immediately and made close, long-standing friendships, such as those with James "Jim" Sutton, Colin Gunner and Noel "Josh" Hughes. Although home life was relatively cold, Larkin enjoyed support from his parents. For example, his deep passion for [[jazz]] was supported by the purchase of a drum kit and a [[saxophone]], supplemented by a subscription to ''[[DownBeat]]''. From the junior school he progressed to King Henry VIII Senior School. He fared quite poorly when he sat his [[School Certificate (UK)|School Certificate]] exam at the age of 16. Despite his results, he was allowed to stay on at school. Two years later he earned distinctions in English and History, and passed the entrance exams for [[St John's College, Oxford]], to read English.<ref>Bradford 2005, p. 38.</ref>

Larkin began at Oxford University in October 1940, a year after the outbreak of the [[Second World War]]. The old upper-class traditions of university life had, at least for the time being, faded, and most of the male students were studying for highly truncated degrees.<ref>Bradford 2005, p. 39.</ref> Due to his poor eyesight, Larkin failed his military medical examination and was able to study for the usual three years.<ref>Motion, p. 72</ref> Through his tutorial partner, Norman Iles, he met [[Kingsley Amis]], who encouraged his taste for ridicule and irreverence and who remained a close friend throughout Larkin's life.<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.spectator.co.uk/books/8770871/two-angry-old-men/|title=Two angry old men – The Spectator|date=1 December 2012|publisher=spectator.co.uk|access-date=6 April 2017|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20130830070827/http://www.spectator.co.uk/books/8770871/two-angry-old-men/|archive-date=30 August 2013|url-status=live}}</ref> 

Amis, Larkin and other university friends formed a group they dubbed "The Seven", meeting to discuss each other's poetry, listen to jazz, and drink enthusiastically. During this time he had his first real social interaction with the opposite sex, but made no romantic headway.<ref>Bradford 2005, p. 59.</ref> In 1943 he sat his [[Final examination|finals]], and, having dedicated much of his time to his own writing, was greatly surprised at being awarded a [[British undergraduate degree classification|first-class honours degree]].<ref>Motion 1993, p. 104.</ref>

===Early career and relationships===
{{see also|Relationships that influenced Philip Larkin}}
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In 1943 Larkin was appointed librarian of the public library in [[Wellington, Shropshire]]. It was while working there that in early 1944 he met his first girlfriend, Ruth Bowman, an academically ambitious 16-year-old schoolgirl.<ref>Bradford 2005, pp. 68–9.</ref> In 1945, Ruth went to continue her studies at [[King's College London]]; during one of his visits their friendship developed into a sexual relationship. By June 1946, Larkin was halfway through qualifying for membership of the [[Chartered Institute of Library and Information Professionals|Library Association]] and was appointed assistant librarian at [[University College, Leicester]]. It was visiting Larkin in Leicester and witnessing the university's [[Common room (university)|Senior Common Room]] that gave Kingsley Amis the inspiration to write ''[[Lucky Jim]]'' (1954), the novel that made Amis famous and to whose long gestation Larkin contributed considerably.<ref name="Motion 1993, p. 238">Motion 1993, p. 238.</ref> Six weeks after his father's death from cancer in March 1948, Larkin proposed to Ruth, and that summer the couple spent their annual holiday touring [[Thomas Hardy's Wessex|Hardy country]].<ref name="bradford70">Bradford 2005, p. 70.</ref>

In June 1950 Larkin was appointed sub-librarian at [[The Queen's University of Belfast]], a post he took up that September. Before his departure he and Ruth split up.  At some stage between the appointment to the position at Queen's and the end of the engagement to Ruth, Larkin's friendship with [[Relationships that influenced Philip Larkin#Monica Jones|Monica Jones]], a lecturer in English at Leicester, also developed into a sexual relationship. He spent five years in Belfast, which appear to have been the most contented of his life. While his relationship with Jones developed, he also had "the most satisfyingly erotic [experience] of his life" with [[Patsy Strang]], who at the time was in an [[open marriage]] with one of his colleagues.<ref>Bradford 2005, p. 100.</ref> 

At one stage she offered to leave her husband to marry Larkin. From 1951 onwards Larkin holidayed with Jones in various locations around the British Isles. While in Belfast he also had a significant though sexually undeveloped friendship with [[Winifred Arnott]], the subject of "Lines on a Young Lady's Photograph Album", which came to an end when she married in 1954. This was the period in which he gave Kingsley Amis extensive advice on the writing of ''Lucky Jim''.<ref name="Motion 1993, p. 238"/> Amis repaid the debt by dedicating the finished book to Larkin.<ref>Hartley 1989, p. 7.</ref>

[[File:Philip Larkin -Flat in Hull 1.jpg|upright|right|thumb|This second-floor flat overlooking Pearson Park in [[Kingston upon Hull|Hull]] was Larkin's rented accommodation from 1956 to 1974 (photo&nbsp;2008).|alt=Larkin's former second-floor flat in Hull was part of a building of conventional red-brick construction in a residential area.]]
In 1955 Larkin became University Librarian at the [[University of Hull]], a post he held until his death.<ref>Motion 1993, pp. 244–245</ref> [[Raymond L. Brett|Professor R. L. Brett]], who was chairman of the library committee that appointed him and a friend, wrote, "At first I was impressed with the time he spent in his office, arriving early and leaving late. It was only later that I realised that his office was also his study where he spent hours on his private writing as well as the work of the library. Then he would return home and on a good many evenings start writing again."<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.philiplarkin.com/pdfs/essays/psycho-literary_sketch_rbrett.pdf |author=Brett |year=1996 |title=Philip Larkin at Hull: A Psycho-Literary Sketch |url-status=dead |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20130903140224/http://www.philiplarkin.com/pdfs/essays/psycho-literary_sketch_rbrett.pdf |archive-date=3 September 2013 }}</ref> For his first year he lodged in [[bedsit]]s. In 1956, at the age of 34, he rented a self-contained flat on the top-floor of 32 Pearson Park, a three-storey red-brick house overlooking the park, previously the American Consulate.<ref>Motion 1993, p. 276.</ref> This, it seems, was the vantage point later commemorated in the poem ''[[High Windows (poem)|High Windows]].''<ref>Bradford 2005, p.154</ref> 

Of the city itself Larkin commented: "I never thought about Hull until I was here. Having got here, it suits me in many ways. It is a little on the edge of things, I think even its natives would say that. I rather like being on the edge of things. One doesn't really go anywhere by design, you know, you put in for jobs and move about, you know, I've lived in other places."<ref>Larkin, speaking on BBC's ''[[Monitor (UK TV series)|Monitor]]'', 15 December 1964</ref> 

In the post-war years, Hull University underwent significant expansion, as was typical of British universities during that period. When Larkin took up his appointment there, the plans for a new university library were already far advanced. He made a great effort in just a few months to familiarize himself with them before they were placed before the [[University Grants Committee (United Kingdom)|University Grants Committee]]; he suggested a number of emendations, some major and structural, all of which were adopted. It was built in two stages, and in 1967 it was named the [[Brynmor Jones Library]] after Sir [[Brynmor Jones (academic)|Brynmor Jones]], the university's [[Chancellor (education)|vice-chancellor]].

One of Larkin's colleagues at Hull said he became a great figure in post-war British librarianship.<ref>Goodman 1997, p. 4.</ref> Ten years after the new library's completion, Larkin computerized records for the entire library stock, making it the first library in Europe to install a [[Geac Computer Corporation|Geac computer]] system, an automated online circulation system. Richard Goodman wrote that Larkin excelled as an administrator, committee man and arbitrator. "He treated his staff decently, and he motivated them", Goodman said. "He did this with a combination of efficiency, high standards, humour and compassion."<ref>Goodman 1997, p. 7</ref>  He rejected the [[Net Book Agreement]].<ref>Ball, D., 2012. "Managing suppliers for collection development: the UK higher education perspective." In: Fieldhouse, M. and Marshall, A., eds. ''Collection Development in the Digital Age.'' London: Facet, 111-124.</ref> From 1957 until his death, Larkin's secretary was Betty Mackereth. All access to him by his colleagues was through her, and she came to know as much about Larkin's compartmentalized life as anyone.<ref>Bradford 2005, p. 241, which includes a quote from Motion 1993, p. 282.</ref> During his 30 years there, the library's stock sextupled, and the budget expanded from £4,500 to £448,500, in real terms a twelvefold increase.<ref>Goodman 1997, p. 10</ref>

===Later life===
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In February 1961 Larkin's friendship with his colleague Maeve Brennan became romantic, despite her strong Roman Catholic beliefs.<ref>Bradford 2005, p. 183.</ref> In early 1963 Brennan persuaded him to go with her to a dance for university staff, despite his preference for smaller gatherings. This seems to have been a pivotal moment in their relationship, and he memorialised it in his longest (and unfinished) poem "The Dance".<ref>Bradford 2005, p. 199.</ref> Around this time, also at her prompting, Larkin learnt to drive and bought a car – his first, a [[Singer Gazelle]].<ref>''Letters to Monica'', p. 326.</ref> Meanwhile, Monica Jones, whose parents had died in 1959, bought a holiday cottage in [[Haydon Bridge]], near [[Hexham]],<ref>Bradford 2005, pp. 181 & 193.</ref> which she and Larkin visited regularly.<ref>Motion 1993, p. 319.</ref><ref><!-- please don't remove this while dead links are being sorted - don't want to mess up the numbering! -->Blank reference</ref> His poem "Show Saturday" is a description of the 1973 [[Bellingham, Northumberland|Bellingham]] show in the North Tyne valley.<ref>Motion 1993, p. 437.</ref>

In 1964, following the publication of ''[[The Whitsun Weddings]]'', Larkin was the subject of an edition of the arts programme ''[[Monitor (UK TV series)|Monitor]]'', directed by [[Patrick Garland]].<ref>Down Cemetery Road, closing credits.</ref> The programme, which shows him being interviewed by fellow poet [[John Betjeman]] in a series of locations in and around [[Kingston upon Hull|Hull]], allowed Larkin to play a significant part in the creation of his own public persona; one he would prefer his readers to imagine.<ref>Bradford 2005, p. 203.</ref>

In 1968, Larkin was offered the [[Order of the British Empire|OBE]], which he declined. Later in life he accepted the offer of being made a [[Member of the Order of the Companions of Honour]].<ref>{{cite news|url=https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-16736495|title=BBC News – Queen's honours: People who have turned them down named|work=[[BBC Online]]|access-date=12 June 2013|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20161126094501/http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-16736495|archive-date=26 November 2016|url-status=live}}</ref> In 1976, the [[Hamburg]]-based [[Alfred Toepfer Foundation]] awarded Larkin its annual [[Shakespeare Prize]] in recognition of his life's work.

Larkin's role in the creation of Hull University's new Brynmor Jones Library had been important and demanding. Soon after the completion of the second and larger phase of construction in 1969,<ref>Bradford 2005, p. 217.</ref> he was able to redirect his energies. In October 1970, he started to work on compiling a new anthology, <!-- if changing the title of this book, please provide a citation -->''[[The Oxford Book of Twentieth Century English Verse]]'' (1973). He was awarded a Visiting Fellowship at [[All Souls College, Oxford]], for two academic terms, allowing him to consult Oxford's [[Bodleian Library]], a [[copyright library]]. While he was in Oxford he passed responsibility for the Library to his deputy, [[Brenda Moon]]. Larkin was a major contributor to the re-evaluation of the poetry of [[Thomas Hardy]], which, in comparison to his novels, had been overlooked; in Larkin's "idiosyncratic" and "controversial" anthology,<ref>Motion 1993, p. 407.</ref><ref name="Motion 1993, p. 431">Motion 1993, p. 431.</ref>  Hardy was the poet most generously represented. There were twenty-seven poems by Hardy, compared with only nine by [[T. S. Eliot]] (however, Eliot is most famous for long poems); the other poets most extensively represented were [[William Butler Yeats|W. B. Yeats]], [[W. H. Auden]] and [[Rudyard Kipling]]. Larkin included six of his own poems—the same number as for [[Rupert Brooke]]. In the process of compiling the volume he had been disappointed not to find more and better poems as evidence that the clamour over the [[Modernists]] had stifled the voices of traditionalists.<ref name="Motion 1993, p. 431" /> The most favourable responses to the anthology were those of Auden and John Betjeman, while the most hostile was that of [[Donald Davie]], who accused Larkin of "positive cynicism" and of encouraging "the perverse triumph of philistinism, the cult of the amateur ... [and] the weakest kind of Englishry". After an initial period of anxiety about the anthology's reception, Larkin enjoyed the clamour.<ref>Bowen 2008, p. 107.</ref>

[[File:Philip Larkin -house in Hull 1.jpg|right|thumb|105 Newland Park, [[Kingston upon Hull|Hull]], was Larkin's home from 1974 to his death in 1985 (photo 2008).|alt=Larkin lived in a comfortable residential area in Hull at No.105, [[Newland Park]] in a detached house of red brick construction. Doors on the first floor at the front of the house open onto a small balcony. As seen in 2008 part of the walls at the front of the house are covered with a green climbing plant, but a round commemorative plaque is visible]]
In 1971, Larkin regained contact with his schoolfriend Colin Gunner, who had led a picaresque life.<ref>{{Cite web |title=Gunner, Colin (Oral history) |url=https://www.iwm.org.uk/collections/item/object/80010746 |access-date=2024-06-29 |website=Imperial War Museums |language=en}}</ref> Their subsequent correspondence has gained notoriety as Larkin expressed right-wing views and used racist language.<ref>{{cite web
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Shortly after splitting up with Maeve Brennan in August 1973, Larkin attended W. H. Auden's memorial service at [[Christ Church, Oxford]], with Monica Jones as his official partner.<ref>Motion 1993, p. 438.</ref> In March 1975, the relationship with Brennan restarted, and three weeks after this he initiated a secret affair with Betty Mackereth, who served as his secretary for 28 years, writing the long-undiscovered poem "We met at the end of the party" for her.<ref>{{cite web
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In 1976, Larkin was the guest of [[Roy Plomley]] on BBC's ''[[Desert Island Discs]]''. His choice of music included "[[Dallas Blues]]" by [[Louis Armstrong]], ''[[Spem in alium]]'' by [[Thomas Tallis]] and the [[Symphony No. 1 (Elgar)|Symphony No. 1 in A flat major]] by [[Edward Elgar]]. His favourite piece was "I'm Down in the Dumps" by [[Bessie Smith]].<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p009n0l8|title=Philip Larkin, Desert Island Discs – BBC Radio 4|publisher=bbc.co.uk|access-date=6 April 2017|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20151230040821/http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p009n0l8|archive-date=30 December 2015|url-status=live}}</ref>

In December 2010, as part of the commemorations of the 25th anniversary of Larkin's death, the BBC broadcast a programme entitled ''Philip Larkin and the Third Woman'' focusing on his affair with Mackereth in which she spoke for the first time about their relationship.  It included a reading of a newly discovered secret poem, ''Dear Jake'', and revealed that Mackereth was one of the inspirations for his writings.<ref>{{cite news
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===Final years and death===
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Larkin turned sixty in 1982. This was marked most significantly by a collection of essays entitled ''[[Larkin at Sixty]]'', edited by [[Anthony Thwaite]] and published by [[Faber and Faber]].<ref name=LarkinSixty>Thwaite 1982.</ref> There were also two television programmes: an episode of ''[[The South Bank Show]]'' presented by [[Melvyn Bragg]] in which Larkin made off-camera contributions, and a half-hour special on the BBC that was devised and presented by the Labour Shadow Cabinet Minister [[Roy Hattersley]].<ref>Motion 1993, p. 494.</ref>

In 1983, Jones was hospitalised with [[shingles]], a skin rash. The severity of her symptoms, including its effects on her eyes, distressed Larkin. As her health declined, regular care became necessary: within a month she moved into his Newland Park home and remained there for the rest of her life.<ref>Motion 1993, p. 498.</ref>

[[File:Philip Larkin -headstone at Cottingham municipal cemetery, near Hull, England-24May2008.jpg|upright=1.1|right|thumb|The headstone marking Larkin's grave at Cottingham municipal cemetery, [[Cottingham, East Riding of Yorkshire|Cottingham]], [[East Riding of Yorkshire]]|alt=Headstone marking Larkin's grave at Cottingham Cemetery, [[Cottingham, East Riding of Yorkshire|Cottingham]], [[East Riding of Yorkshire]]. The headstone is light-grey and has a ground level built-in vase for flowers on its right side. When seen in 2008 there was a small green bush growing just to its left. The headstone is inscribed with the words "Philip Larkin  1922–1985  Writer" on three lines with the dates on the middle line. It is situated in a cemetery with other headstones.]]
At the memorial service for John Betjeman, who died in July 1984, Larkin was asked if he would accept the post of [[Poet Laureate of the United Kingdom|Poet Laureate]]. He declined, not least because he felt he had long since ceased to be a writer of poetry in a meaningful sense.<ref>Bradford 2005, p. 260.</ref> The following year, Larkin began to suffer from [[oesophageal cancer]]. On 11 June 1985, he underwent surgery, but his cancer was found to have spread and was inoperable. On 28 November, he collapsed and was readmitted to hospital. He died four days later, on 2 December 1985, at the age of 63, and was buried at [[Cottingham, East Riding of Yorkshire|Cottingham]] municipal cemetery near Hull.<ref>Motion 1993, p. 524.</ref>
 
Larkin had asked on his deathbed that his diaries be destroyed. The request was granted by Jones, the main beneficiary of his will, and Betty Mackereth; the latter shredded the unread diaries page by page, then had them burned.<ref>Motion 1993, p. 522.</ref> His will was found to be contradictory regarding his other private papers and unpublished work; legal advice left the issue to the discretion of his literary executors, who decided the material should not be destroyed.<ref>Motion 1993, p. xvi.</ref> When she died on 15 February 2001, Jones, in turn, left £1&nbsp;million split between [[St Paul's Cathedral]], [[Hexham Abbey]] and [[Durham Cathedral]], and another  £1&nbsp;million to the [[National Trust]].<ref>{{cite news
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